Alan Rubenstein, ADR Attorney in Westport, Connecticut
focused on ADR and Family Law
Westport, CT
Trusted adr attorney serving Westport.
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Alan Rubenstein is an attorney based in Westport, CONNECTICUT. The practice focuses on ADR and Family Law.
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- Westport, CONNECTICUT
- Experience
- attorney
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- ADR · Family Law
- Handles ADR and Family Law matters from Westport, CONNECTICUT.
- Recognized with Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Arbitration (Stamford) (2025).
About Alan Rubenstein: Alan Rubenstein is an attorney based in Westport, CONNECTICUT. The practice focuses on ADR and Family Law.
Areas of practice
Legal matters Alan takes on
Alan concentrates on adr and family law. Each area below outlines the kind of case Alan handles, typical outcomes to expect, and how the intake process starts.
ADR cases in Westport, Connecticut
Alan takes adr matters in Westport, Connecticut. Typical engagements include intake calls to scope the issue, review of any records or filings you already have, and a written strategy memo before Alan agrees to represent you.
Family Law cases in Westport, Connecticut
Alan takes family law matters in Westport, Connecticut. Typical engagements include intake calls to scope the issue, review of any records or filings you already have, and a written strategy memo before Alan agrees to represent you.
Biography
Meet Alan Rubenstein — adr lawyer in Westport
Alan Rubenstein is an attorney based in Westport, CONNECTICUT. The practice focuses on ADR and Family Law.
Alan Rubenstein is a highly-skilled family lawyer, divorce mediator, and collaborative divorce attorney. He has practiced family and divorce law for more than 30 years. He has served as counsel for approximately 1,200 divorces, involving more than 250 divorce mediations, 150 collaborative/cooperative divorces, and numerous hearings and trials.
A trained marriage and family counselor with a Master of Science in counseling psychology with a specialization in marriage and family therapy, Alan approaches divorce from a perspective that differentiates him from other divorce lawyers: He recognizes that divorce consists of “problems to be solved and not battles or a war to be fought.” He possesses a high degree of psychological awareness, which actively and constructively informs the attorney-client relationship and divorce process.
Alan strives to resolve divorces expeditiously, thoroughly, and efficiently. His breadth of professional experience enables him to quickly recognize obstacles and determine a reasonable range of outcomes for each issue. Once he obtains the necessary information to fully understand all of the divorce-related issues for the unique needs of the client, he works diligently to engage in efficient and effective settlement dialogue to affect an equitable, and forward-looking resolution of all matters. While most divorces reach settlement, if that is not possible, Alan has the necessary trial experience, skill set, and tenacity to successfully advocate for his clients in the courtroom.
Alan keeps the divorce process moving forward to minimize his client’s legal fees and the stress and anxiety inherent in divorce. He breaks down the divorce process into manageable, individual issues in the context of a global resolution that protects the interests of his clients and their families.
Alan’s reputation for thoroughness, fairness, integrity, and positive outcomes is the foundation of his family law practice. He also serves as a special master in the Connecticut Superior Court and as a private special master and consultant.
Alan's approach to adr cases
Alan Rubenstein is a highly-skilled family lawyer, divorce mediator, and collaborative divorce attorney. He has practiced family and divorce law for more than 30 years. He has served as counsel for approximately 1,200 divorces, involving more than 250 divorce mediations, 150 collaborative/cooperative divorces, and numerous hearings and trials. A trained marriage and family counselor with a Master…
Clients Alan works with
Alan reviews new inquiries case-by-case for adr and family law matters in Westport and the surrounding Connecticut area.
Credentials
Education, bar admissions, and languages
Brooklyn Law School
JD · 1991
San Francisco State University
— · 1983
University of Rochester
BA · 1979
Jurisdictions
Alan's state bar admissions
District of Columbia
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New York, State of N
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Connecticut, State o
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Alan studied at JD in Brooklyn Law School, — in San Francisco State University, and BA in University of Rochester.
Law school and academic background
Alan completed JD in Brooklyn Law School, — in San Francisco State University, and BA in University of Rochester. Formal legal training is one signal of substantive knowledge — the day-to-day practice Alan runs in Connecticut is where that training gets applied to real client questions.
Recognition
Recognition and thought leadership
Alan has received 7 formal recognitions from bar associations, industry bodies, and peer-review services.
Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Arbitration (Stamford)
2025
Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Mediation (Stamford)
2025
Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Mediation (Stamford)
2023
Best Lawyers in America — Collaborative Law: Family Law
2026
Best Lawyers in America — Family Law
2026
Best Lawyers in America — Family Law Arbitration
2026
Best Lawyers in America — Family Law Mediation
2026
Legal awards and honors
Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Arbitration (Stamford) (2025). Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Mediation (Stamford) (2025). Lawyer of the Year — Family Law Mediation (Stamford) (2023). Best Lawyers in America — Collaborative Law: Family Law (2026). Best Lawyers in America — Family Law (2026). Best Lawyers in America — Family Law Arbitration (2026).
Locations
Alan Rubenstein's office in Westport
Alan's primary office is at 33 Riverside Avenue, 4th Floor, Westport, Connecticut, 06880. In-person meetings are by appointment; a phone intake usually comes first.
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How to hire Alan Rubenstein — what to expect in your first consultation
Working with a new adr attorney should feel structured. Here's how the first two conversations with Alan usually go, from the moment you request a consult to the day representation begins.
Consultation formats and pricing
Alan charges for the initial consult. That fee is credited toward representation if you retain Alan's office.
What to bring to your first meeting
Bring any documents you already have — police reports, medical records, filed pleadings, correspondence from an insurer, a copy of the contract at issue. If you're not sure, err on the side of bringing everything; Alan will tell you what matters and what doesn't.
Questions to ask a adr attorney in Westport, Connecticut
A short list to run through before you commit: How many adr matters have you handled in the last year? What's your fee structure? Who else in the office will work on this? What's your realistic estimate of timeline and range of outcomes? How do I reach you between meetings?
Fees & payment
Fees, payment methods, and consultation options for Alan
Alan discusses fees during intake so the arrangement fits the matter. Contingency, hourly, and flat-fee options are all common in adr practice — ask which fits.
Hourly rates, contingency fees, and flat-fee options
Every adr matter is priced differently. Simple document review might be a flat fee. Injury litigation is often contingency. Complex commercial disputes usually run hourly with a retainer. Alan confirms the model in the engagement letter before any work starts.
Payment methods and payment plans
Alan's office accepts standard payment methods. Ask about payment plans if the retainer is a stretch — many adr practices work with clients on structured schedules.
Frequently asked
Frequently asked questions about Alan Rubenstein
How much does it cost to hire Alan for a adr case?
Cost depends on the type of matter, the fee model (contingency, flat, hourly), and how contested the case becomes. Alan walks through the likely range during the consult so there are no surprises.
Does Alan offer a free consultation?
Alan charges for the initial consult; that fee is credited toward representation if you retain Alan's office. Some adr attorneys offer free consults — check Alan's current terms during booking.
How long do adr cases in Connecticut typically take?
Simple adr matters can wrap in a few weeks; disputed cases can run 6–18 months from intake to resolution, longer if the matter goes to trial. Alan gives a realistic estimate for your facts at the consult — vague answers here are a red flag.
Can Alan take my case if I'm outside Westport?
Alan is licensed in Connecticut. Matters governed by Connecticut law are the natural fit. Out-of-state matters are handled case-by-case, sometimes with local co-counsel. Ask during intake — Alan will tell you if the case is a fit or refer you to someone closer to your court.
What should I bring to my first meeting with Alan?
Bring every document that touches the dispute: contracts, correspondence, police or medical reports, filed pleadings, invoices, photographs, insurance letters. Also bring a written timeline of what happened, in your own words. Alan will filter what matters — over-preparing at intake is always cheaper than needing a second meeting.
Is Alan accepting new adr clients right now?
Alan's intake status shifts week to week. Submit the form; the office will confirm availability or refer the matter out.
Areas served
ADR attorneys serving Westport, Hartford and Stamford in Connecticut
Alan handles adr matters throughout Connecticut. Each city below is a direct link into the search page for verified adr attorneys in that community.
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