Ellen Shaffer Meyer, Adoption Attorney in Wilmington, Delaware
Over 45 years of legal practice · focused on Adoption and Family Law · 4.4/5 rating from 4 verified client reviews
MemberatEllen Shaffer Meyer
Wilmington, DE
Practicing adoption in Wilmington since 1981.
- 45+
- Years practicing
- 4.4 ★
- 4 client reviews
- 3
- Bar admissions
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Ellen Shaffer Meyer is a member based in Wilmington, DE. The practice focuses on Adoption and Family Law. Ellen has over 45 years of legal experience. Currently practicing at Ellen Shaffer Meyer. Rated 4.4 out of 5 from 4 client reviews.
- Based in
- Wilmington, DE
- Experience
- over 45 years
- Known for
- Adoption · Family Law
- Handles Adoption and Family Law matters from Wilmington, DE.
- Over 45 years of practice as a licensed attorney.
- Recognized with BV Distinguished.
About Ellen Shaffer Meyer: Ellen Shaffer Meyer is a member based in Wilmington, DE. The practice focuses on Adoption and Family Law. Ellen has over 45 years of legal experience. Currently practicing at Ellen Shaffer Meyer. Rated 4.4 out of 5 from 4 client reviews.
Areas of practice
Legal matters Ellen takes on
Ellen concentrates on adoption and family law. Each area below outlines the kind of case Ellen handles, typical outcomes to expect, and how the intake process starts.
Adoption cases in Wilmington, Delaware
Ellen takes adoption matters in Wilmington, Delaware. Typical engagements include intake calls to scope the issue, review of any records or filings you already have, and a written strategy memo before Ellen agrees to represent you.
Family Law cases in Wilmington, Delaware
Ellen takes family law matters in Wilmington, Delaware. Typical engagements include intake calls to scope the issue, review of any records or filings you already have, and a written strategy memo before Ellen agrees to represent you.
Biography
Meet Ellen Shaffer Meyer — adoption lawyer in Wilmington
Ellen Shaffer Meyer is a member based in Wilmington, DE. The practice focuses on Adoption and Family Law. Ellen has over 45 years of legal experience. Currently practicing at Ellen Shaffer Meyer. Rated 4.4 out of 5 from 4 client reviews.
Ellen Shaffer Meyer is a lawyer practicing domestic relations law, adoption law. Ellen received a A.B. degree from Brown University in 1961, and has been licensed for 45 years. Ellen practices at Ellen Shaffer Meyer in Wilmington, DE.
Working with Ellen on a adoption matter
Ellen Shaffer Meyer is a lawyer practicing domestic relations law, adoption law. Ellen received a A.B. degree from Brown University in 1961, and has been licensed for 45 years. Ellen practices at Ellen Shaffer Meyer in Wilmington, DE.
Clients Ellen works with
Ellen reviews new inquiries case-by-case for adoption and family law matters in Wilmington and the surrounding Delaware area.
Credentials
Education, bar admissions, and languages
Delaware Law School of Widener University
J.D. · 1980
Brown University
A.B. New · 1961
Jurisdictions
Ellen's state bar admissions
U.S. District Court,
1982 · ACTIVE
Pennsylvania
1981 · ACTIVE
Delaware
1981 · ACTIVE
Ellen studied at J.D. in Delaware Law School of Widener University and A.B. New in Brown University.
Law school and academic background
Ellen completed J.D. in Delaware Law School of Widener University and A.B. New in Brown University. Formal legal training is one signal of substantive knowledge — the day-to-day practice Ellen runs in Delaware is where that training gets applied to real client questions.
Recognition
Recognition and thought leadership
Ellen has received 1 formal recognition from bar associations, industry bodies, and peer-review services.
BV Distinguished
Legal awards and honors
BV Distinguished.
Affiliations
Ellen's professional memberships and bar associations
Delaware State Bar Association
Member, Sections on: Family Law Women and the Law) Pennsylvania and American Bar Associations American Academy of Adoption Attorneys (Member of Board, 2002-2004 · membership
Locations
Ellen Shaffer Meyer's office in Wilmington
Ellen's primary office is at 521 West Street, Wilmington, DE, 19801-2139. In-person meetings are by appointment; a phone intake usually comes first.
Client feedback
Client reviews of Ellen Shaffer Meyer — 4.4/5 rating from 4 verified client reviews
Every review below is from a verified client of Ellen. Reviews cover communication, case outcome, and value — the three signals that matter most when comparing adoption attorneys in Wilmington.
4.4
4 client reviews
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How to hire Ellen Shaffer Meyer — what to expect in your first consultation
Working with a new adoption attorney should feel structured. Here's how the first two conversations with Ellen usually go, from the moment you request a consult to the day representation begins.
Consultation formats and pricing
Ellen charges for the initial consult. That fee is credited toward representation if you retain Ellen's office.
What to bring to your first meeting
Bring any documents you already have — police reports, medical records, filed pleadings, correspondence from an insurer, a copy of the contract at issue. If you're not sure, err on the side of bringing everything; Ellen will tell you what matters and what doesn't.
Questions to ask a adoption attorney in Wilmington, Delaware
A short list to run through before you commit: How many adoption matters have you handled in the last year? What's your fee structure? Who else in the office will work on this? What's your realistic estimate of timeline and range of outcomes? How do I reach you between meetings?
Fees & payment
Fees, payment methods, and consultation options for Ellen
Ellen discusses fees during intake so the arrangement fits the matter. Contingency, hourly, and flat-fee options are all common in adoption practice — ask which fits.
Hourly rates, contingency fees, and flat-fee options
Every adoption matter is priced differently. Simple document review might be a flat fee. Injury litigation is often contingency. Complex commercial disputes usually run hourly with a retainer. Ellen confirms the model in the engagement letter before any work starts.
Payment methods and payment plans
Ellen's office accepts standard payment methods. Ask about payment plans if the retainer is a stretch — many adoption practices work with clients on structured schedules.
Frequently asked
Frequently asked questions about Ellen Shaffer Meyer
How much does it cost to hire Ellen for a adoption case?
Cost depends on the type of matter, the fee model (contingency, flat, hourly), and how contested the case becomes. Ellen walks through the likely range during the consult so there are no surprises.
Does Ellen offer a free consultation?
Ellen charges for the initial consult; that fee is credited toward representation if you retain Ellen's office. Some adoption attorneys offer free consults — check Ellen's current terms during booking.
How long do adoption cases in Delaware typically take?
Simple adoption matters can wrap in a few weeks; disputed cases can run 6–18 months from intake to resolution, longer if the matter goes to trial. Ellen gives a realistic estimate for your facts at the consult — vague answers here are a red flag.
Can Ellen take my case if I'm outside Wilmington?
Ellen is licensed in Delaware. Matters governed by Delaware law are the natural fit. Out-of-state matters are handled case-by-case, sometimes with local co-counsel. Ask during intake — Ellen will tell you if the case is a fit or refer you to someone closer to your court.
What should I bring to my first meeting with Ellen?
Bring every document that touches the dispute: contracts, correspondence, police or medical reports, filed pleadings, invoices, photographs, insurance letters. Also bring a written timeline of what happened, in your own words. Ellen will filter what matters — over-preparing at intake is always cheaper than needing a second meeting.
Is Ellen accepting new adoption clients right now?
Ellen's intake status shifts week to week. Submit the form; the office will confirm availability or refer the matter out.
Areas served
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